When someone says that they prefer singleness to love, our first instinct is not believe him, or even worse, assume he speaks out of bitterness and that he’s trying to show it to people because he happens to be single, and that’s exactly what he wants.
Really we never hear them; we simply project our own sense of what it must be like for them to be single.
We don’t trust anyone to really want to be single, but that’s really our problem, not theirs.
In a world where we are sold the idea that we are only half of a person until we find that other half special super dumb to complete us, is the type of lie that can really ruin a person, for life.
Not everyone wants to mate and, oddly enough, that doesn’t automatically mean he’s a serial killer because of it. Sometimes people who want to stay single are really just people who enjoy their own company.
When we have a transit like Mars in sextile with Uranus, from May 8 to 12, 2022, we will find that many of us who yearn for a simple life without drama, a single life is the best alternative and if it is the option for that we choose, we will get ahead.
Go find yourself a partner and do the family thing, if that’s your trip, go for it.
As for the rest of us, who don’t easily fit into the mold of expectations, we’ll stick to our guns and stay single. Any problem?
The 3 zodiac signs that want to be single during Mars Sextile Uranus, from May 8 to 12, 2022
1. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Every time you decide to jump on the ‘normal’ bandwagon, you end up feeling like you’re not being true to yourself, and being true to yourself is basically what defines you. You are a truly original, unique and independent mind and body.
You do not want to be claimed, owned or owned as a partner. You want to be alone, and that doesn’t mean you don’t like people or romance; sure you do.
As much as anyone else, but history has taught you that it is better for YOU to remain single than to be in a relationship where so much is expected of you that you have no interest in delivering.
During Mars sextile Uranus, you will find yourself defending the right to choose what is best for you, as friends will push you towards this person or that potential date. You’ll tell them you’re pretty good ‘as is’ and they won’t believe you.
2. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
In your case, you would prefer to be single simply because you are not. You got into a partnership for life, and while you can’t really say you regret it, you feel like it was taken away from you, instead of improving what you already have.
There are times when it’s all you think about; It’s not even about having sex with other people, it’s not about sex, but a real and true desire to be FREE. Free of attachments, free of expectations.
With Mars sextile Uranus in the sky, you may even be completely disconnected during this time, which means you’re about to feel so overwhelmed by your partner’s needs that you’ll be plotting your escape route. You love this person, yes, but you just don’t know why you said “yes” to the whole “life partners” routine.
3. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
You’re with someone because, whether you want to admit it or not, they make things convenient for you. However, if you were really honest with yourself, you would know that this relationship is all about convenience and has very little to do with actual love.
You just want to be single, because being single, you feel like you can be more of yourself. If you want to relax and fantasize, you can do it without the prying eyes of another.
You don’t want to have to give any more explanations. You just want to be alone, and that’s not because you’re an ogre, but because you’re a human being who longs for more than a relationship can give you.
They really got it all wrong with this ‘other half’ thing; you have never found your other half in a person and that is because your other half is YOU. Unfortunately, the amenities.